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a community for the gender curious

space to be your true self.

A chat-first community for trans, non-binary and gender-diverse adults. Talk, share and learn with other like-minded peeps.

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18+ · ID-verified · made in the UK

  • chat first, always

    One-to-one and small groups. No swiping, no matching, no profiles to score. Gen is not a dating app.

  • everyone is verified

    Photo ID and a liveness check before anyone gets in, and real humans moderating once they're here.

  • pros who get it

    Experienced members of the community who have been where you are. Read their profiles in the app.

chat

no swiping.
no matching.
just chatting.

Start a conversation with one person or a handful. Rooms stay small on purpose, so it feels like a group chat with friends rather than shouting into a feed.

  • One-to-one and small group chats
  • Interests and prompts to break the ice
  • Block, mute and report on every screen
The Gen chat screen: a search bar, a row of verified members, and recent one-to-one conversations.

safety

id-verified before anyone gets in.

Verification is the price of admission, not a badge you can buy. It is the single biggest reason Gen'ers say they feel able to speak freely here.

  • Government photo ID plus a liveness check
  • Adults only, strictly 18+
  • Moderated by people, not just filters
  • Your data is never sold. You choose what's visible

pros

someone who has been there.

Pros are experienced members of the community, invited by The Gen. They are not doctors, therapists or counsellors. Read their profiles in the app and see what helped them.

A Gen profile screen showing a member's photo, pronouns, location, bio and a grid of interests.

the gen- family

it's all in the name.

  • gentle
  • genius
  • genial
  • genuine

the gen unlimited

everything unlocked, nothing shouting at you.

The Gen Unlimited gives you the full app: Mixers, unlimited chat, all of it, with your first 28 days free. After that, if you choose a plan, it's £4.99/month for your first 3 months, then £7.99/month.

included

The Gen Unlimited

  • Unlimited chats and groups
  • See everyone in Discover
  • No ads, ever

28 days free. Nothing is charged unless you choose a plan.

“love gen. i learnt so much about myself.”
a Gen'er, on the app store

find your peeps.

Free to join. Verified in minutes.

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